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Thursday, 16 May 2013
Monday, 06 May 2013
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It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to your enemies…
but a great deal more to stand up your friends.
Text me when you miss me and actually wanna talk to me,
not just when you're bored and need someone to entertain you.
it's funny how certain things trigger memories. like, songs, smells, stuff like that. some make you sad and some capture you in a momentary deja vu. you can just close your eyes and you are then captured in the past.
When you're dreaming with a broken heart, waking up is the hardest part.
Tuesday, 30 April 2013
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She doesn’t say “I love you” like a normal person. Instead she’ll laugh, shake her head, give you a little smile and say, “You’re an idiot.” If she tells you you’re an idiot, you’re a lucky man.
Thursday, 18 April 2013
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For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much you love the person.
Most relationships tend to fail. Not because the absence of love. Love is always present.
It’s just that one was being loved too much and the other wasn’t being loved enough.
Sometimes the only thing that people see is what you did. When in fact,
they should be looking at why you did it
I'm wondering how the people I loved could grow into people I wish I never even knew.
Not every girl wants to be in a relationship. Some just want good
company, a guy to vibe with, converse with, and laugh with. Not in
a rush. Start off simple and let the rest find itself. Having
someone to talk to and feeling comfortable around them is quite
beautiful and it’s a good feeling.
If being a bitch means not letting people walk all over you,
then I say it loud and proud - "I'm a bitch"
The most beautiful people are the ones that can never be figured out.
The ones you could talk with for hours and still have a million things
to ask. The people who have minds so lovely and special you can't help
but fall in love with them.
We live in a society that says to be individuals, but they still promote uniformity.
A society that puts a mask over you if they feel you serve as a problem.
We live under a government that controls us through fear.
A government that's not looking out for what's best of us, but what's best for them.
Our coworkers, classmates, friends, family have stopped caring about each other,
and simply started to care about the size of their bank account and
the amount of people that know their name. It doesn't matter who we have in our life anymore,
but what. We measure a man not by his courage, or his perseverance,
but by the size of his house and the cost of his car. Status is not gained by good deeds,
it is gained by stepping over whoever you please to climb to the top.
You tell me you're different, but you have to realize... we're all the same.
just because I don't give you my heart as soon as you show interest doesn't men I don't like you,
or am 'throwing you away'. It might mean I don't know you well enough to do so,
and I want my heart protected. It would be cool if that was respected.
the real world does not start when you leave High School,
when you can legally drink or when you get a job.
you have been in the real world your whole life.
so go live it.
You have to think like a dude so you don't cry like a bitch.
when people hurt you over and over, think of them as sand paper. they
scratch and hurt you. but in the end, you are polished, and they are useless.
No body is too busy, it's just a matter of priorites.
At the end of their relationship she asked if they could still remain friends.
His face was expressionless until he said 'no, because we put friends in boxes.
You see them once in a while, or even a lot, but still they have their box in your life,
their specific place. their category. that's one of the great things about being someone's love -
you have no box in their life because you are part of all their boxes.
You are their friend, their lover, their confidante - all those things.
I don't want to be put in one of your boxes and
i don't want to shrink you to fit into one of mine.
If you really care about the girl, don't treat all other girls in the same way.
i pity the man who truly believes i need him. i am a whole person,
a complete individual on my own. i do not need a boy to 'complete me'.
this does not mean i would not appreciate a nice fella'.
it just means i am a human, capable of functioning with
or without a man by my side.
the saddest people i have ever met in life are the ones who
don't care deeply about anything at all. passion and satisfaction go hand in hand,
and without them, happiness is only temporary because
there is nothing to make it last i love to hear people talk about
what they are most passionate about,
because that is when you see the person at their best.
if you have to choose between me and someone else,
choose the other person. i don't like being an 'option'.
When I said it's not the same without you, I meant it's better.
Monday, 15 April 2013
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I feel mushy, suckit.
one day you look at a person and see more than you did the day before like
a switch was just flicked somewhere and that person who was just a friend
is suddenly the only person you can imagine yourself being with.
I love you. And not in a friendly way, although I think we're great friends.
And not in a misplaced affection, puppy dog way, although I'm sure that's what
you'll call it. And it's not because you are unattainable. I love you. Very simple,
very truly. You're the epitome of every attribute and quality that I've ever looked for
in another person. I know you think of me as just a friend, and crossing that line is
the furthest thing from an option you'd even consider. But I had to say it,
I can't take this anymore. I can't stand next to you without wanting to hold you.
I can't look into your eyes without feeling that longing you only read about
in trashy romance novels. I can't talk to you without wanting to express my love
for everything you are. I know this will probably queer our friendship-no pun intended-
but I had to say it, because I've never felt this way before and I like who I am because of it.
And if bringing it to light means we can't hang out anymore than that hurts me.
But I couldn't allow another day to go by without getting it out there, regardless of the outcome,
which by the look on your face, is to be the inevitable shoot-down. And I'll accept that.
But I know some part of you is hesitating for a moment, and if there is a moment of hesitation,
that means you feel something too. All I ask is that you not dismiss that-at least for
ten seconds-and try to dwell in it. there isn't another soul on this fucking planet
who's ever made me half the person I am when I'm with you and I would risk this friendship for
the chance to take it to the next plateau. Because it's there between you and me, you can't deny that.
And even if we never speak again after tonight, please know that I'm forever changed because of who you are and what you've meant to me.I don't know which is worse, keeping your love for someone a secret
or telling them and risk being rejected.Throughout life you will meet one person who is unlike any other.
This person is one you could forever talk to. They understand you in a way that no one else does
or even could. This person is your soul mate,
your best friend. Don't ever let them go,Ever notice that the people who hurt you the most are the ones you tend to love more.
I love you. I love every little thing about you - your sexy smile, the sound of your voice,
the magic in your eyes. I love your gentle touch and the warmth I feel at your side
I love dreaming about you. I love discovering you and letting go with you. I love each and
every once in a lifetime moments I share with you today, tomorrow, forever.For someone who is suppose to be "just friends" why do I always get butterflies in my stomach
when you smile at me.When loving someone, never regret what you do, only regret what you don't do.
It's YOU. You mean everything to me... you are the first thought in my head in the morning when I wake up; my last thought before I go to bed. You smile at me in my dreams... when you are sad,
I fell sad, and when I see your true smile, I feel incredible, like there is no other thing around
and all I can see is you.In love you find the oddest combinations; materialistic people find themselves in love with idealists;
clingers fall in love with players; homebodies capture and try to smother butterflies.
It it wasn't so serious we could laugh at it.'I love you' means that I accept you for the person that you are,
and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and
stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you're in a bad mood
or too tired to do things I want to do. It means loving you when you're down,
not just when you're fun to be with. I love you means that I know your deepest secrets
and do not judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine.
It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go.
It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly,
hoping you feel the same way for me.
I love you because I know you're always there... there to catch me when I fall...
there to listen when I need you, there when I feel alone. I love you because you understand me...
you know how I feel even when I can't say it... you know I'm not as strong as I say and
still you never let me know that I'm not fooling you. I love you because you make me believe,
believe that I am not worthless... believe that I can be loved, am loved, and can love others.
I love you because you know, you know I feel this way but can't say it and still you wait...
letting me take my time to come to terms with the fact that I love you...
would give my life up to be with you... and above all... never hurt you... lie to you...
or leave you. Now I hope you understand.When they call you at four in the morning to say, "I love you" and mean it.
When your tears stain not only their shirt, but also their heart. When they are hurt just because
of these tears. When even a simple chore done with them can become a lasting memory. Ultimately,
you know you are in love when you can't imagine living without them, and can't figure how did you
live before you knew them. When they fulfill every need and without them you are incomplete.
The love of someone else completes the heart, and sound and mind all at once.Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around.
You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say
and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true,
goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.
When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it,
knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting
or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or
make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things
about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy
or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself
and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are.
The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or
walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.
Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again.
Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before
it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps
to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence,
there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby.
Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important
to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon.
You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart,
you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is
the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.
You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in
knowing that they are a part of your life.”
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- Name: when_forever_starts_to_en
- Birthday: 10/31/1991
- Gender: Female
- Member Since: 2/1/2009
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Take me ... anyway you want i dont care anymore Ive been through alot the past year and i keep on going and still dont have a reason to get out of bed each morning.
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